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It’s especially difficult as a feminist – admitting you’re doing it because you want to benefit from the patriarchal bargain of being more of what men want to look at – because during 22.5 hours of the day, you’re fighting the patriarchy…but there’s an hour and a half of the day you’re working hard to increase your ability to benefit from it.Why the unique snub reserved for the one fat girl in the crew?I wish I could say that this experience was isolated, but it’s been more the rule rather than the exception for me.They don’t want a partner who complains about how much time they spend “up in the gym, just workin’ on their fitness.” You and I might know that now, but I certainly didn’t know it before. People often misjudge me as one of those people who loses weight and now “hates” fat people to the point where I would high-five them for telling me these things.You also start to notice the pairs on the subway, late on a “date night,” out together. Big girls have to live, date and eventually love in this environment.

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The following excerpt appeared on the CFC’s blog: Because desire is socially constructed (no matter how much folks justify their limited dating choices based on ‘natural preference’), the fact that we live in a fat-hating culture greatly affects who we’re attracted to, and what we find attractive. We ranged in size and skin tone, from short and petite, to tall and lanky, from light-skinned to dark-skinned, from skinny to fat (me being the fat one), and everything in between. My girl gave us his vital statistics and it turns out the brother is highly intelligent and very accomplished. This I discovered, as I watched him at different points during the evening, strike up a conversation and flirt with every single girl in the crew—except me.and he the thing that society says is most desirable. When I’m in NYC, men love my ‘fro (which extends well beyond my shoulders in width.) I took my ‘fro to Indianapolis?Unfortunately that means, for certain men in certain cities with certain careers, certain traits get you sent straight out of the window. Um…let’s just say that there were plenty people in general giving me the gas face.(Two) I think of all that CRUNK club-hopping I did in ATL back in the early days of the CFC.Nothing can make me dance with abandon like a smoke-filled club strung out on CRUNK.

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